
Understanding Dad™ with Mom as Gateway™ [Facilitator's Bundle]
Craft a robust program for moms, tackling gatekeeping behavior more effectively than using either resource by itself.
Understanding Dad™ is a unique program that helps moms improve the relationships they have with dads, for the benefit of their children. The program helps moms better understand the importance of involving dad in their children's lives, and how to better communicate with their child(ren)s' dad.
Program Length
12 sessions at approximately 2 hours each
- Start the optional opening session in Understanding Dad™.
- Follow it with the eight core sessions of Understanding Dad™.
- End the program with the three sessions of Mom as Gateway™.
Program Delivery
Group setting, delivered by a facilitator.
Training
- Program Guide in Facilitator's Manual provides background, philosophy, and all necessary facilitator information to run the program successfully.
- Custom webinar training and in-person training at your location are also available. Learn more here.
When moms complete Understanding Dad™ before Mom as Gateway™, it primes them to address their gatekeeping behavior more openly during the latter. After Understanding Dad™ helps moms reflect on how their upbringing affects how they relate to dad, the importance of dads to child well-being, and learn practical communication skills to effectively interact with dad, they're more open to addressing their gatekeeping behavior head on during Mom as Gateway™.
Topics Covered in Understanding Dad™
- My Life as a Mom
- My Father's Impact
- My Mother's Impact
- Me and My Children's Father
- The Impact on My Children
- Patterns of Communication
- Open, Safe Communication
- How to Listen
Topics Covered in Mom as Gateway™ Booster Session
These sessions for moms help you break down barriers between moms and dads by addressing what is known as Maternal Gatekeeping - when a mom's beliefs about a dad, as well as her behaviors, hinder a dad's involvement - and facilitate helpful discussions and efforts towards co-parenting.
- The Role of The Gatekeeper
- Power and Control Between Men and Women in Relationships
- Minimize Excessive Gatekeeping
We know it's very helpful to view a sample of a curriculum before purchasing to get a feel for the content, topics, layout, logic, and more.
Click this link to Access the Understanding Dad™ Sample file
Click this link to Access the Mom as Gateway™ Booster Session Sample file

Here's what you will find in the free
Understanding Dad™ sample file:
- Curriculum Table of Contents
- Logic Model
- Facilitator's Manual Session
- Fathering Handbook Session
Understanding Dad™ is a promising program. It increases mothers' relationship awareness, knowledge of healthy co-parenting relationships, and relationship self-efficacy.
Click here to download the Temple University Evaluation.
Understanding Dad™ also increases mothers' co-parenting confidence: See the study here.
Finally, Understanding Dad™ reduces disagreements between parents and mothers' undermining the father's relationship with their child. See the study here.